Dear Etty,

I just returned from a Sunday platform at which the speaker delivered a talk about a philosopher who had some connections to Ethical Culture.  While the speaker was enthusiastic, I was unable to understand many of the concepts because he neglected to provide descriptions of the various philosophies that he mentioned.  Should I have said something during response?   Is there an ethical way to comment on a speaker?

Dear Etty,

Our country is at war in Iraq.  I did not support the war and now it turns out that we have been torturing people.  Am I responsible for the actions of my country?  Am I responsible for our injured soldiers?    

Feeling Guilty

Dear Etty,

As a NOVES member, I understand that the Society looks to me for financial support.  However, I am feeling uncomfortable about the frequency of requests for donations when I am not doing all that well.  Any suggestions about how I can deal with these negative feelings?

Dough Boy

Dear Etty,

I have a friend who is hard of hearing.  He is fifty-five years old.  His hearing loss has gone from mild to severe and I frequently have to repeat my words.  When I asked him whether he had sought medical advice about his hearing, he told me that it is not so bad.  When I pressed a bit, he said that a hearing aid would make him look old.  Several months have passed since I mentioned my concern. Suggestions?

Dear Etty

Dear Etty,

Ok, I admit it. I am overweight. And so is my spouse.  We just can’t seem to control our appetites. We are now on cholesterol lowering medicines.  We are not good at exercising.  I have good willpower for most of the day.  By nightfall, my self-control is down and my caloric intake is up.  Is there any help?

Fighting the Bulge